40 Make Out Tips For Guys
Kissing a girl or making out can be a tricky piece of business. You want to make sure you nail it, but without hurting the future prospects. Also, you don’t want to have a reputation for sucking when it comes to making out with a girl. If this news spreads, then no girl would ever want to kiss you! So we are going to help you out by telling you ways to perfect the art of kissing. We will go systematically around telling you exactly what to do and what not to do during the time when you are making out with a girl. This way you can easily avoid the tag of being a lousy kisser while getting the girl of your dreams –
1. You Should Actually Know How To Play The Game
A kiss should always be magical. You should have some prior experience before you actually dive in. How to kiss so you don’t disappoint is important when it comes to capturing the undivided attention of the girl of your dreams. Better have some casual dates and learn something from your temporary partners.
2. Keep Flirting To A Minimum
A little flirting helps to create the right mood but don’t make the mistake of going crazy. If you tell a girl you love her hair or her shoes, she will love you forever! Just don’t start talking about her nice rack or her cute ass. You can hug her and tell her she’s cute but leave it at that. When you flirt, you are opening the door to kissing her and believe us, that’s one heck of a move!
3. Be Wise And Pick The Right Moment
This is the most important step. It really is tough to pick the right time to kiss your girl, but it is possible. Usually, the end of the date is the perfect time to move in but make certain you pay close attention to her body cues, you don’t want to mess this up. Try not to make your first kiss in a public place. Choose a well-concealed spot to make out.
4. Begin Slowly
Move slowly. Any quick and slick moves will get you rejected pronto. When you slowly move towards her, you give her a chance to show you she isn’t ready. Hopefully, that isn’t the case but sometimes that happens. If you make it to her lips safely, be sure your eyes are shut. Kissing with your eyes open for the first time really is freaky! Being comfortable is foremost for kissing.
5. Pay Attention To Her Reaction
Being alert to her needs plays a significant role. Be wary of the vibes she is giving. She might want to kiss too deeply off the hop. Or she might just want a little awkward peck to start. Put your hand on her face when you kiss because that will act as comfort. Hug her while you kiss her because that is a safe step. It will also give her a sense of security.
6. Don’t Forget To Take Deep Breaths In Between
When you are planting your first kiss with nerves is that you actually forget to breathe. If your kiss happens to be extended, make sure your breath through your nose. While keeping in mind, holding the kiss as long as you can is seriously important. Just be confident in you and when you need to break off and come up for air, just do it. Carry it on from there.
7. French Kissing Is The Ultimate Form Of Kissing
Avoid getting too excited. Never, ever jam your tongue down her throat. Trust me, no matter how much passion you think you have, that’s going to turn her off. This is where you probably want to let the girl take the lead, that is if you feel comfortable doing so. If you are going for it, make sure you are “gentle” and move “slowly.” Explore a little with your tongue and see how she responds. This might take some time to master
8. Show Her The Passion Behind The Kiss
When you are kissing her, kiss her like a man! Kiss her like you mean it or don’t kiss her at all. Passionate kissing can still be short and sweet until you get more comfortable with one another. A passionate kiss is where you suck on the lips of your girl. Ease yourself into this one and make sure you stop when you’re tired. A passionate skin evokes the dormant feeling as well.
9. Test The Waters With The “Talking Kiss”
Talking raises the bar even more. This one is often reserved for romantic love stories, but you can use it too! This kiss is all about timing and finding your comfort zone. If you are nervous or uptight, this kiss just isn’t going to work because it’s a bit of a complicated technique. You’ve got to time the kissing part just right within your conversation. Conversations allow the personal touch, and it goes a long way in your relationship.
10. Never Forget Your Hands
Although lips are the main attraction but that doesn’t mean you should forget about your hands when making out. When you use your hands, this shows the girl that you aren’t just going through the motions and you really are thinking about her. The hands offer security and just heighten the effects of the kiss. Let your hands do some of the silent talking.
11. Stop Talking When It’s Time To Engage
You always need to warm her up with conversation before you dive in for the kiss. Remember that is absolutely essential. But talking too much can interfere with the make-out session in the big picture. Particularly, when it’s your first kiss together, make sure you both are kissing and not doing anything else.
12. Staying Calm Is The Key To Lifelong Love
Kissing is stressful. You must have discovered that by now. More so, if you have had some bad experiences with kissing. Kissing is all about connection. So you need to take some time out and relax if your kiss is going to leave her wanting more. Do not hurry the process at any point in time. Otherwise, you are going to mess things up.
13. Breath Mints Are A Must
When you are on a date, always make sure you have some breath mint gums handy. You just never know when the opportunity will arise for some kissing, and there is seriously nothing worse than kissing a woman with bad breath.
14. Don’t Ruin That Moment With Criticism
There are some guys that will criticize a girl’s kissing ability while both of them are at it. Kissing isn’t easy, particularly if you’re nervous. Just think of how you would feel if a girl did that to you. Keep your “constructive” criticism thoughts to yourself. Still, if you feel that you need to mention it to the woman, then do it slowly and teach her like you are training her for some enjoyable game.
15. Figure Out What Your Specialty Is
The two of you can work together to figure out what sort of signature move is. It could be two quick pecks and then a nice deep one. Or maybe you just go right in for the French kiss to start. It really doesn’t matter, just as long as you are both on the same page and are comfortable with your signature moves.
16. Soft Affection Works
The soft moves are the best moves. When a guy brushes your hair back behind your ear, when he kisses you or he simply glides his hand down the side of your face, that’s hugely attractive. A little safe touching goes a long way when you are looking to nail the art of making out. Softness and cuddling are what make a girl go week in her knees.
17. Go For The Tender Bite
You need to be very careful here. It is actually a delicate step that needs to be perfectly executed. Remember, you need to be a perfect gentleman with this step. Otherwise, everything could go wrong. That’s because if you bite too hard and cut her lip, you might be in hot water. Control yourself and don’t get overexcited. Please also remember that a bit of gentle lip biting is sexy if done correctly.
18. Mixing It Up Is Magical
Humans are creatures of habit and all our processes get boring fast. When you mix up your kissing techniques, you open the door to keep things exciting and alive and most importantly unpredictable. Some kisses will work and others won’t. Mix things up and keep her guessing, will you?
19. Ask Her If You Can Kiss Her
A girl feels special when you ask her permission before you do something. If you are looking to kiss her and you ask her, this will take the pressure off the both of you. This just means she is fine with you kissing her and you don’t have to worry about whether she really wants to kiss you or not. Showing a bit of chivalry actually helps a lot.
20. Make Sure You Tug At Her Hair
Now don’t pull it hard. A hard tug will bring a lot of pain, a soft one will help you nail the game. In the heat of the moment, if you gently tug on her hair that then that will raise the stakes in the turn-on department. Apparently, it just makes that kiss feel better. This step is worth a try.
21. Let Your Lips Take A Walk
Don’t be afraid to let your lips explore your girl a bit. You can kiss her softly at first, and venture off from there. Perhaps, you want to kiss her neck and face too. Whatever, it is, don’t do it clumsily. Experiment some and follow the cues of your partner to see if you are on track. You will see the magic unfurling with these moves.
22. Plant One On Her When She Least Expects It
Surprises work wonders. It just adds fuel to the fire It’s also cute and affectionate at the same time. So maybe when you are cooking her dinner, you can sneak up behind her and kiss the back of her neck or hair playfully. What this does is, it takes out the tension out of the kiss and makes it memorable.
23. No Chewing Gums While You Are Kissing
This is really gross and goes against all the dictum and decency of kissing. Kissing someone with a sloppy piece of gum in your mouth. There are exceptions to the rules but you better not be one. Just spit the gum out before you start the make-out session and you are good to go.
24. Change Up Your Destination
Kissing can get boring fast. It is much better if you change up the venue where you are kissing. Take her someplace super special to make it memorable. How about in an elevator? What about a park? The sky is the limit. Just use your imagination and add a new flavor to your kissing.
25. Never Begin Your Day Without A Meaningful Goodbye Smooch
If you do that, then that is a maniacal step. Remember, communication is vital in any relationship whether it’s new or seasoned. By kissing your partner, no matter what, before you start your day, you are saying that everything is okay and you’ve got each other’s back. It’s all the more important in a relationship that matters.
26. Stop Stressing About Your Next Move
Kissing isn’t a game of chess. Stop overanalyzing the kiss because all that’s going to do is steal the thunder from your special moment. In other words, you just need to stop fretting, let your guard down and go for it. Stress could make you go bonkers and make you miss out on the wonderful romantic moments.
27. Don’t Tease Her Too Much
If you tease her too much, then she will treat you like a Royal Prick. It’s okay to tease but if you tease her too much, you will come off as a prick. If she thinks you are just screwing around with her, you are good as gone. Stop the teasing and give her the kiss she wants, needs and ultimately deserves.
28. Go Easy On The Saliva
Drooling while kissing is so bad. It is the ultimate no-no! Honestly, it is totally disgusting. As much as you might like the man, but this disgusting habits will make a mess. Make sure you aren’t the guy that is drooling throughout your make-out sessions or you will find yourself flying solo. No girl is going to put up with that.
29. Do Not Lead With Hard Biting
Unless and until a girl/woman tells you that she wants you to bite her lip hard, just don’t do it. Having a bruised and bleeding lip from a kissing session is really not cool. If you are biting, just make it a nibble until you are comfy with each other and know what she likes. Men can bite really hard without them actually knowing it.
30. Everybody Loves Passion But Smacking Their Face Against Yours Is A Bad Idea
Pressure is good with the perfect kiss, but do not overdo it. If you are suffocating her or making her face hurt, then that’s a strict no-no! Just go with the flow. Remember kissing is a couple’s game and not a solo act. Just do everything in moderation and you will be just fine.
31. Lean In But Don’t Overdo It
Movie kisses aren’t the real deal. The actors just get the visuals right. How it feels is objective and not subjective. You need to get that straight right now. Whenever you kiss a girl, you need to lean in but please don’t overdo it. Too much of a good thing just spoils the broth. Period.
32. Don’t Ignore What Her Lips Are Saying
If you focus on the lips, then you will see that they speak a lot. Many times the way your girl is kissing is telling you everything. Pay attention to how they are responding to your kissing advances. If you focus on the girl, you really can’t go wrong. If you fail to read what her mouth and body are speaking, then you can very well kiss her goodbye. And that’s disastrous!
33. Don’t Just Stick With The Lips, Explore Further
Do you want to know one sure blooper? These are things that will never work. One of the major mistakes guys make is to only stick with the lips and never venture further. Nibble her ear or simply kiss her neck. How about brushing your lips across her cheek? This will turn up the flames of love and passion even more. Isn’t love a wonderful game?
34. Never Stray From Basic Kissing To Stupid Fornication Action
Some men will go from all the way from kissing for the first time to laying it on heavy to head to the bedroom. That’s because if you choose to follow this discourse, there is a very good chance you could blow up the budding relationship. Always remember that the slow and steady wins the race, every time. You need to put your needs on hold and pay attention to your girl. Then and only then will you be able to get to your goal faster.
35. Do Not Allow Your Mind Drift Off While Kissing
Minds are made to waver. The cogs of the brain are always whirring. If you are smooching with a girl you really like, make sure you don’t consciously let your mind shift to anything outside of the moment, the special moment you are kissing this special girl. Remember to be focused on the work that is at hand and not on some future assignments.
36. It Is Not Only Humans That Kiss Each Other
Do you think that humans are the only primates that kiss each other? There are other creatures in the animal kingdom that indulge in kissing. Humans aren’t the only ones to kiss loved ones. Meerkats, squirrels, and chimps all kiss, just for the record, according to Romper.
37. There Are A Lot Of Diseases Associated With Kissing
If you thought to kiss was always a wonderful thing, then you cannot have been any more mistaken. There are always some tacky germs you might pass along with kissing. Some of the pathogens are very infectious like Hepatitis B and Herpes. Just be wary before you dive in for the kiss, for your own well-being. Or you could both disinfect each other. Oh, and do tell each other if you suffer from any STD or not.
38. A Kiss Should Always Be The Smoothest Romantic Move
Do you want to know a bit of historical trivia? After the falling of the Roman Empire, for almost a thousand years romantic kissing seemed to be obsolete? However, when Shakespeare made his appearance, the romance was back. In his novels, Shakespeare shows a bit about the art of seduction, and also tells you a bit about passionate kissing? We tried some of the methods and found it quite a bit effective in real life.
39. The French Were Responsible For The Creation The Famous French Kiss
No, no, we are are not messing with history. Surely, this has a little bit of truth in it. Allow us to explain this a bit further. In France, this kiss is commonly called the “Florentine Kiss.” It wasn’t until after World War I that the term French Kiss gained prominence. It was more or less a present from the English and the Americans, who weren’t aware of what Florentine actually meant. Now, that is really interesting, what do you think?
40. You Need More Than A Kiss To Get Heated Up
If a guy kisses you in the right way, then all you need to do is get ready for so much more. Kissing gets you warmed up and ends up boosting the blood flow. It also shifts your adrenal gland into overdrive, so your body is ready to take action. So indulge in hot kissing and if everything goes right, then into some humping and pumping.
41. A Kiss Has A Lot Of Meaning
Kisses mean a lot. If you seriously think a messed up first date kiss means nothing, then you are seriously wrong. When you kiss a guy and swap saliva, it means something, genetically speaking. It also means that you both are serious about the relationship.
42. Pecks Do Not Suck The Hind Teat
We apologize for using the farmer’s terminology in the matters of soft love. The bottom line is you don’t need a crazy full-on make-out session in order to reap the rewards of a simple kiss. Pecks are magical and mean a lot more than a session of crazy passionate kissing. Pecks can be so cute.